When someone has been sexually assaulted, there is a tremendous feeling
of vulnerability and loss of control over one's body and very existence.
Survivors need to regain a sense of control. Allow the survivor to make
her (his) own decisions. Your may help by offering information and options.
Assure the survivor that you believe in her (him). Remind the survivor
that the assault was not her (his) fault. Do not blame or suggest blame.
Do not judge or criticize. Avoid showing strong emotion of any kind.
Sometimes survival requires involuntary cooperation. Recognize that whatever
choice of action was used to get through the ordeal was obviously effective
since the victim survived. Be supportive.
Allow the victim space and time to talk or not to talk. It is common for
sexual assault survivors to choose to protect those to whom they are close
by not sharing details.
Much of the survivor's recovery may depend on your reactions and responses.
Call the Rape Care Program Hotline for support for yourself.
Domestic Violence
1.888.843.9262
Sexual Assault 1.888.264.Rape
(7273)
TTY# 1.732.264.3089
Youth Helpline 2ndFloor 1.888.222.2228 24 hours a day -
7 days a week
