How can I help someone
in an abusive relationship?
Talk About It - Just knowing that
someone cares enough to ask about the abuse can break through the wall
of isolation often felt by victims of relationship abuse.
Listen without judging . Often
when someone is being abused they believe all the criticisms and negative
messages that the abuser says about them. They may feel
responsible, ashamed and afraid that you will judge them.
Say "It isn't your fault." There
is no excuse for physical or emotional abuse - not alcohol, drugs,
jealousy, financial difficulties, stress or any of the victim's actions.
Explain That Abuse Tends to Get Worse -
Domestic Violence recurs and escalates over time and it rarely stops
without an intervention.
Provide Information - Give the
person 180's 24/7 Domestic Violence Hotline number, 1-888-843-9262,
if they live in Monmouth County, New Jersey. Our hotline is free and
confidential.
For other areas The National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-SAFE
(799-7233) can provide information about domestic violence shelters
and programs in your local area.
Realize that Ending a Relationship
Is a Process .
The best that you can do is to be patient and supportive.
Domestic Violence
1.888.843.9262
Sexual Assault 1.888.264.Rape
(7273)
TTY# 1.732.264.3089
Youth Helpline 2ndFloor 1.888.222.2228 24 hours a day -
7 days a week
